We have tried everything to make our daughter realize this man is not a good fit for her.
Now she is considering turning down her scholarship because he doesn’t want her to leave the area. Can you give us any advice on how to redirect her thinking?
Most of their information comes from media that’s meant to be entertaining, not realistic.
Make sure your child understands what it means to be in a loving and supporting relationship.
I know you probably want to pull your hair out knowing your daughter's friend doesn't deserve her, or are wishing that her boyfriend would just move to another city (or country... Unfortunately, there's no magic dust I can send you to make that person go away, but I can give you some suggestions from our amazing Ask Elizabeth girls and experts on how to deal with the situation.
There's no one-size-fits-all answer; every situation is different, and only you can know which approach is right for your specific dynamic.
But it’s important to remember that they do still need you now and this is a normal development phase of the teen years.
There are also things you can do to make dating easier for both of you.
My mom and I have always had an amazing closeness -- we can share almost anything -- but I'll admit these were two times that we had some serious tension between us.He is on probation and cannot drive, so my daughter now often drives him.I’m quite sure she feels deep compassion and a desire to rescue him. I have talked to her about my thoughts and feelings, pointed out the obvious difficulties and heartache being in a relationship with an alcoholic.But hopefully at least one of these ideas will resonate for you.1) Try to see what your daughter sees in this person.It isn’t until you completely detach that she will fully come into her own. I want to reconcile with her, but she won’t apologize to anyone and thinks she has done nothing wrong.